Perhaps you don't care. Perhaps it never bothered you. Perhaps you have questions. Here I plan to add text and resources that I found interesting while growing up and trying to establish who I am as an orphan from Vietnam. If you have written something, or have books or poetry you have read that you think lends to this section, please contact then with me. I would like to have a section here for each orphan who also left Vietnam as part of Operation Babylift where they can share their story. Until I am done with this section I leave you with this poem I read in college from Valuing Diversity and Similarity: Bridging the Gap through Interpersonal Skills by Joe Wittmer, Ph.D.

Asian Is Not Oriental

 

ASIAN
is not
Oriental
head bowed, submissive, industrious
model minority
hard working, studious
quiet

    ASIAN
    is not being
    Oriental,
    Lotus blossom, exotic passion flower
    inscrutable

      ASIAN
      is not talking
      Oriental,
      ahh so, ching chong chinaman
      no tickee, no washee

ORIENTAL
is a white man's word.
Oriental is jap, flip, chink, gook
it's "how 'bout a backrub mama-san"
it's "you people could teach them niggers
and mexicans a thing or two
you're good people
none of that hollering' and protesting"

    Oriental is slanty eyes, glasses, and buck
    teeth
    Charlie Chan, Tokyo Rose,
    Madam Butterfly
    it's "a half hour after eating chinese food
    you're hungry again"
    its houseboys, gardeners, and laundrymen

      Oriental is a fad; yin-yang, kung-fu
      "say one of them funny words for me"
      Oriental is downcast eyes, china doll
      "they all look alike."
      Oriental is sneaky
      Oriental
      is a white man's word.

WE
are not Oriental
we have heard the word all our lives
we have learned to be Oriental
we have learned to live it, speak it,
play the role,
and to survive in a white world
become the role.
The time has come
to look at who gave the name.

Anonymous (1989)

Post-Trip Wrap-up is a short story written by Joshua Woerthwein about his trip in 1997 back to Vietnam.